If you’re reading this, chances are…
You know what it’s like to feel behind: in life, your LinkedIn profile, your art, your healing.
You’ve seen others seem effortlessly radiant, accomplished, or in sync and couldn’t help but think:
“Why not me?”

And not in a casual way. In a painful, acerbic way.
Like it’s your fault for not being further ahead.
Like if you could just work harder, fix yourself faster, get it “together” already…
You’d finally feel worthy. At peace. Free.

This, my love, is the comparison wound.

And you’re not broken for having it.

My Story with the Comparison Wound

(And Why I Created This Guide)

For years, I was the textbook high-achiever.

I graduated from the University of Pennsylvania with honors, two majors, and a near-perfect GPA.

I had the body, the career, the academic accolades, the art portfolio, and the perfectly curated aesthetic IG feed.

But inside?

I was constantly comparing myself to others.
My body. My creativity. My productivity. My healing journey.
None of it ever felt good enough.

I pushed myself until my nervous system collapsed. I was completely disconnected from my joy.
I abused stimulants, stayed in draining relationships, and forced myself to keep up with impossible standards.

Even when I was “winning,” I still felt behind.

And that’s what comparison does.
It robs us of our presence, our creativity, and our connection to truth.

Why Comparison Hurts So Much

(Especially for Sensitive, Neurodivergent, or Creative Souls)

Comparison isn't just a mindset issue. It's an energetic wound.

For many of us, especially those raised in high-pressure environments or by emotionally neglectful caregivers, comparison was wired into our nervous systems from a young age.

We weren’t taught how to feel our emotions.
We were taught how to perform.

To be better. Thinner. Smarter. More obedient.
To prove we were worthy by achieving something measurable.

But the more we betrayed ourselves to earn conditional approval, the more we lost our own rhythm.

And when you're sensitive, creative, or deeply feeling… this pressure to conform, perfect, and compare is soul-crushing.

You Can Stop Comparing Yourself. You Can Reclaim Your Energy.

I created a free guide called ✨ Unbind the Comparison Spell to help you gently break free from this cycle. Not by hustling your way out of it, but by regrounding in your center.

🌀 Download the guide here:

Inside the guide, you’ll find:

5 powerful energetic tools to stop comparison in its tracks
Nervous system regulation practices that ground you in the present moment
Mindfulness and meditation tips to create space between you and the pattern
Self-inquiry prompts to reconnect with your truth
Daily suggested energetic reset ritual to restore your power and peace (including an audio version guided by yours truly!)
Affirmations to rewire your relationship with self-worth

This guide isn’t about fixing.
It’s about returning to who you really are.

What Happens When You Heal the Comparison Wound

When you stop comparing yourself to others, you:

Reclaim your creative life force energy without feeling constantly depleted
Reconnect to your unique rhythm and soul’s timing
Feel safer, more grounded, and more easeful in your body in your process
Access clarity, confidence, and alignment
No longer drain your energy trying to keep up

Instead of struggling from a place of lack, you begin creating with ease from a place of overflow.
You feel more at peace, even if things aren’t perfect.
You begin to trust your own pace.

This Is For You If…

You’re tired of feeling like you’re falling behind
You struggle with perfectionism or imposter syndrome
You’re a sensitive, neurodivergent, or creative soul
You want to feel more aligned, grounded, and empowered
You crave tools that go beyond mindset and into the energetics of healing

🌀 Get the free guide now:

A Final Note: You Are Not Behind

I know how convincing that critical voice can be when it’s constantly ragging on you for being too slow, too messy, too late.

But the truth is: you are right on time.
Your body knows how to return to center.
Your spirit remembers who you are beneath the noise.

Let this guide be your reminder and your soft return to you.

Because you’re not falling behind.
You’re unbinding what was never yours.
And your power is waiting.

With love and creative fire,
Yaerin 🐍

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others and Reclaim Your Power (Free Guide Inside)